Gerald & Olivia

August 16, 2025 • North Tonawanda, NY
72 Days To Go!

Gerald & Olivia

August 16, 2025 • North Tonawanda, NY
72 Days To Go!

Q + A

Am I allowed to bring a "Plus One"

All invites are for the guests whom the invite are addressed too. However, some invites do have a plus one. and will say "Name and Guest". If that is the case you are allowed a plus one; when you RSVP if you are allowed a plus one you will need to click edit for "Guest Name" to enter the name of your guest before submitting your RSVP. If you are not able to enter an additional guest name then you were not given a plus one. Unfortunately space is extremely limited and anyone who was not invited will be turned away. If any questions on this please contact us asap! Thank you all for understanding!

Can I RSVP by mail?

Unfortunately no, we too are old souls and love sending snail mail. However due to the amount of organization that is needed to throw a wedding we ask that you RSVP through the website listed on your invitation.

What is the cutoff for RSVP?

We will accept RSVP up until 07.12.2025. After that date we will not be able to accept RSVPs due to vendors, caterers and other logistical issues. So lets all get those RSVPs in ASAP

Is there parking at Harbor House?

Yes, there is limited parking on both sides of the venue. There is also street parking on the side streets located near the venue. Parking may be slightly limited so use this opportunity to carpool karaoke!

Is the wedding indoor? or outdoors?

The great thing about our venue, Harbor House NT, and what we love the most about it is that it offers the perfect balance of both indoor and outdoor space!

Is there a dress code?

We ask that everyone dress in Formal to Semi-Formal attire. We want you to be comfortable yet, not in casual summer attire.

Should certain colors be avoided in your clothing?

The bride and groom are asking that you kindly avoid shades of green in your clothing along with traditional colors designated for the bride.

Am I allowed to bring children?

Due to space and time constraints we have decided to make both the ceremony and reception child-free.

Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?

This is a special day for us and we have invested in a very nice photographer; we understand the desire to capture the moment. However, we ask that during the ceremony you do not use your phone or any other device to capture photos or video. Be present with us and enjoy the moment! During the reception you are more then welcome to take all the photos you would like, the only thing we ask is that during special moments you do not get in the way of the photographer.

What is the wedding day itinerary?

Thank you for asking! just click the link above or in the dropdown menu on the mobile website that says "our day together"

Will there be an open bar?

There will be a limited open bar. The Bride and Groom have chosen 3 signature cocktails that can be served along with a variety of beer, wine, seltzers and non-alcoholic drinks. No off menu drinks will be served and no straight hard liquor will be served. This is an open bar but please tip your bartender!

What is on the menu?

Thank you for asking! just click the link above or in the dropdown menu on the mobile website that says "our day together"

Where should we bring/send our wedding gift?

Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for! If you would like to honor us with a gift, you can have it delivered to our home at 215 60th Street, Niagara Falls, NY 14304. A wedding card box will be at our reception.

I have more questions about your wedding, who can I contact?

Feel free to send us an email at g.o.lucas2025@gmail.com and we will update the Q&A page along with contacting you directly with an answer to your question!